Dating Safety Tips

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Your Safety, Security, and Satisfaction Is Very Important to Us.

As the site responsible for more Christian marriages than all other dating sites combined, your Christian dating happiness means everything to us. Please read these online dating safety tips and use them as guidelines to help you have the best experience possible. Remember no matter how hard we work to keep you safe, it’s ultimately up to you to stay aware and employ common sense both online and offline.

Keep Initial Communication to Within Christian Mingle’s Platform

If you are talking with someone who is acting unusually, you can report the profile to Christian Mingle. However, the Christian Mingle team can only investigate within the boundaries of the Christian Mingle platform. For that reason, it’s best to keep your initial communication with a potential partner to within your Christian Mingle inbox. If an online contact provides a link to chat on a different site, or they immediately try to pressure you into chatting via a different app, stop all contact and report the profile.

Keep Your Personal Info Private

Don’t share any personal information in your profile (like your last name, phone number, addresses or other identifying information), and keep that info private until you feel 100% comfortable sharing it with your match.

Go At Your Own Pace

When it comes to creating a meaningful, long-lasting relationship, slow and steady wins the race. Get to know someone before meeting them offline by chatting in real-time on Christian Mingle to see if there’s chemistry! Ask a lot of questions and watch for potential inconsistencies.

Always Meet In Public

Ask your date to meet you in a public place (like a coffee shop or restaurant) for your first few dates, and be sure to tell a friend where you’re going beforehand. You should also arrange your own transportation to and from the date. Don’t forget to bring your phone with you!

Trust Your Instincts

Getting to know someone requires a little digging, and a lot of common sense. That’s the best way to discover an ideal match online. Your good instincts will carry over into your offline date… and that’s how to ultimately find lasting love online!

Never Share Financial Info

Never send money — regardless of how nicely someone asks — and never give out financial information such as your social security number, credit card or banking information. If someone requests money or you sense a scam, report it immediately. Our customer service team is ready and waiting to help — that’s part of our commitment to you!


Your safety and security are our top priorities:

  • Providing you with customer service support seven days a week
  • Reviewing every profile and photo submitted by members
  • Taking your comments and concerns seriously — if someone is harassing you or seems like a fraudulent profile, we will look into it and take appropriate actions

Check out our online magazine, Believe, for expert tips, advice and articles on Christian dating, relationships, Christian weddings, marriage and sex. We promise to be with you on this exciting journey to meet Christian men and Christian women near you! So, now that you’re ready, it’s time to enjoy the process!